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A different kind of pain

May 30, 2016 8:41 PM

I'm feeling a different kind of pain. Not one I can fill in my chart or take a pill for so wanted to post on here to at least get it out of my system. It's heartache but it is kind of making my other pains worse as my mood is lower and I'm eating less. I miss the man I am in love with more than anything. Well fell out 9 months ago and he hasn't spoke to me since and it's just as painful to me now as it was at the start. I'm not sure how to get over it. I have tried contacting him but no response - I have nearly turned into a stalker. It just breaking my heart he's gone. I'm just feeling so low. ☚ī¸ xxx

May 31, 2016 12:01 AM

@spiritualgirl I honestly know what you're talking about, I had my heart shattered into a million pieces when my ex left suddenly, and I think that may be what triggered the fibro, years ago.
Having said that, I discovered later that he'd been a fake and a lying swindler!
It was for the best. Yours may turn out to be too. Time will help and staying busy, being with loved ones. Vent, vent, vent.
It does make pain worse, medically documented. When you vent you begin to make sense of things. It helps just to get it out.
We're here.

May 31, 2016 1:24 AM

You're right. That heartache pain is so different and so difficult. Work on the positives and don't lose yourself in this process. xoxo

May 31, 2016 11:25 AM

SpiritualGirl, I am sorry for the heartbreak and emotional pain you are suffering. I wish I knew how to make it easier. But heartbreak is probably one of the hardest pains to get through. Some enter our lives for a lifetime while others are like a fleeting wind. He was a fleeting wind, and clearly not strong enough to love & support you. Grieve your loss, remember the good times, vocalize your hurt & anger (verbal or written), then let go. Once you let go you can focus on yourself and move forward, but it takes time just like a death. You are in my heart and prayers! (((Hugs))) & love 🙂💕🙏đŸŒŧ

Jun 05, 2016 9:52 PM

Thank you guys lately I have been spending a lot of time in bed trying to sleep my life away. I'm not suicidal don't sport I just know when I'm asleep nothing hurts so I want to just lie here and be in a deep sleep. The only thing keeping me going is I am still doc sitting my friends dog. I have fallen so much in love with her and that is another pain I am going to have to face when she is taken away from me too. It seems everyone I love leaves me. xxx

Jun 05, 2016 9:54 PM

Worry not 'sport' and dog not 'Doc' - typo's! x

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