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Jul 30, 2017 10:03 PM

I am so down tonight.. I try to stay positive but today has just gotten the best of me. I found out that they bought my parents house and going to turn it into a dang RETION POND! My parents are homeless because the school board wants to make into a dang pond!? I am not having any luck and I've got one week left , I can't stand to see them living like they are. I am at my wit's end. I am in a full on flair now, it just started today.. thanks for letting me vent... I just feel alone because my sister's are of no help.. I'm talking to a brick wall with them. Sigh... Have a good night all..hope your having a pain free week.

Jul 30, 2017 11:13 PM

Oh no Sjogrenspain77, I wish I could help 😢
Stop for a minute and take a big deep breath in, hold it for a second or two and on your breath out let all your frustration and anger out with it.....if you need too repeat as many times as necessary and maybe shout or scream in to a pillow.

Do your parents have somewhere to store their stuff and somewhere temporarily to stay? (Just in case they have to move before they find somewhere)

I'm sorry it's all been left to you to sort out 😢 but I bet you're the best one to do it, have faith in yourself and how resourceful you are 🤔

Sending you positive vibes and warm healing hugs xx 💞 xx

Jul 30, 2017 11:45 PM

Awe I'm sorry to hear about your parents . This is fucked up if you don't mind me saying. Sending prayers your way and your parents way . I am smh over this one . I understand why you needed to vent . And you can any time . We all will try our best to help . ((Gentle hugs)) lots of preyers. 😢😢. I am sorry I wish I could do more to help. 🤗🤗

Jul 31, 2017 5:43 AM

I'm so sorry to hear this, That's awful no wonder your angry and down, I will be thinking of you and your parents i really hope something works out.

Jul 31, 2017 8:37 AM

Just isn't right. So sad! Prayers your way. 🙏🙏🙏

Jul 31, 2017 11:19 AM

We sure could use all the prayers, because I am watching news and we are going to be in the middle of tropical storm Emily, and my parents are hard headed and won't want to leave thier car.

Jul 31, 2017 11:22 AM

Oh know @Sjogrenspain77 I will be thinking of you 💕

Jul 31, 2017 1:07 PM

Sending extra preyers 💕💕💕💕

Jul 31, 2017 5:09 PM

I am so sorry to hear this :( stuff like this makes it so hard. Sending you lots of love.

Jul 31, 2017 5:26 PM

I don't think you're looking for pity but I am genuinely sorry that you have to go through that :(( hugs x

Jul 31, 2017 7:46 PM

No not looking for pitty, that's not me, Everyone needs to vent every now and then.. I always try to stay positive but yesterday and today I had reached my limit.

Aug 01, 2017 8:03 AM

We know you're not looking for pitty Sjogrenspain77 and we all have our limits on what we can take.
I'm not offering pitty I'm offering understanding and light.
Rest for a minute and catch your breath, things will become clearer then you will find the best way forward xx

Aug 01, 2017 10:40 AM

When your overloaded with such stress, it's good to have support from your friends. My prayers are with you and your parents. Is there anyway or person such as your local congressman or representative that can intercede for your parents? I hope and pray there is a solution that will benefit all in concern. Take care 🤗🙏🏻

Aug 02, 2017 8:54 AM

Sjogrenspain77, I'll start with the apologies and wishing best for all if you!
These are things I've been told:
State (physical location) your parents are in can be squatters and they have more rights than the home owners..this was told to me by police...I have inherited my brothers place and got water bill of 45k gallons of water useage! (Not a typo) had squatters for 2 mos. when water company sent out police; police called me and informed me if that.
I know it's not ideal situation, also have you checked with hotels?
I know there is one off I-4 by Winter Park or Altamonte Springs (I don't remember where they lived-but at this point they can go anywhere!) you can't miss it as some rooms are real nice and others you see broken kid toys and discarded clothing hanging from balconies...they can have a real bed to sleep in if even for a week! And a real shower! I know about going from rest area or walmarts to "bathe" beach isn't too bad but still icky...sorry not trying to tell you what to do, but offer viable solutions to help.
Some churches (when My life was more stable, I participated)
Inter Faith Hospitality outreach had opened their churches for homeless people; schools rent dorm rooms out during summer..
We (members) took turns getting things they needed, cooked meals and were there for support...may be temporary, may not be ideal, but beats the alternative of gee darling you've been in front seat for a week let's switch tonight! Ya know?
Big hugs, love and all my best

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