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Anyone herd from Ferritbandit?

Sep 17, 2016 1:05 PM

As I was going through reading some posts it suddenly dawned on me that I haven't seen anything from Ferritbandit in 3 month's. Does anyone know how she is? I am worried about her.

Sep 17, 2016 2:35 PM

Or Terri anymore.

Sep 18, 2016 6:49 AM

I've not seen nor heard from Ferretbandit and have been worried about her...
I've Spoken to Terri and she's exhausted and in pain. She will be back soon hopefully.
Hope you all have a lite pain load on this lovely Sunday... All my best to everyone!!!!! 💕🙏🏻🌻😊

Sep 18, 2016 9:28 AM

Alwayz, thanks for the update on Terri, I sure hope we hear from Ferritbandit soon.

I have good olé thunderstorms moving in so mine pain had not budged since my flair.

How are you feeling today? Been praying for you.

Sep 18, 2016 9:18 PM

Sjogrenspain77, no problem on the update. I wish I had Ferretbandit's number because I'd call her to see how she is.
I'm hanging in there. The crap with the methadone is over (thank goodness) and I am absolutely wiped out. Since the two family funerals I have had to take my Dad back to have a biopsy on his ear (which was already operated on TWICE for squamis cell carcinoma). Well, turned out, it's back again in the same place!!! Then, my older sister ended up in the hospital because the chemo they were giving her was doing so much damage to her that she was sicker from it). Now, she has kidney damage and they aren't giving her any more chemo. She's mentally having a horrible time and she's physically worn out. Tomorrow back to taking Dad to the orthopedist and then Friday back to our family doctor for his check-up. So, I'm trying to recuperate from the last couple of weeks and having little success. Hope all is well with you and thanks for the prayers.. Sending positive vibes, love and {{{Hugs}}} your way!!💕🙏🏻🌻😊

Sep 19, 2016 7:43 AM

Oh Alwayz, it broke my heart reading this, I am so glad that you are over the methadone part, but reading the part's about your dad and your sister are heartbreaking. I hope that they can find a solution to help your sister and I pray that the damage isn't to bad. Please keep me updated on both your dad and your sister, you and your family are in my prayers, you all need a break you have been through enough already these last year. Love to you my friend. My shoulder is here for you if you need it. Love hug's and Prayer's and Sunshine to get you through the day.🙏😘🌞🌹💐

Sep 19, 2016 10:54 AM

I've wondered about ferretbandit too. I'm glad to hear Terri is okay. AlwayZ, I know you're going through a lot and I'm so sorry. If there was anything I could do to help I would. You've had so much on your plate and it breaks my heart to hear this about your sister and your dad. I'm glad you're off the methadone. Your family is in my prayers with big hugs. I love you dear friend.

Sep 23, 2016 3:15 AM

Flappsy and Sjogrenspain77, you are such kind and wonderful friends. You've been a staple in this group and are always around to help get others through. I do my very best to do the same but at the moment having trouble taking care of my own shit. It'll all work out. I'm worried for my Sister because she is 55 and with all the deaths happening around me and the fact that her cancer came back, it's always in the back of my mind that I could lose her. We never had a good relationship and still don't but I was still the one who took her to all of her chemo treatments the first go round and to her doctor appointments for scans. She's slowly getting get strength back since being in the hospital and they aren't doing any more chemo so she should start to feel even better. It just scares me that because of one medicine it fucked up something else. My Dad is pretty frustrated because his ear is all cut up and it's getting deformed from them taking pieces from the same place because the cancer keeps returning. This is the third time and it's weird because they did Moh's surgery the first 2 times and had totally clean margins when they were dobe, sewed him up and he was good to go. Of course, nobody wanted to hurt Dad's ear so guess who was elected to change his bandages... Yup, you guessed it.. ME!!! I didn't want to hurt him either. I'm taking care of it now and am going to have to take him for the surgery next week sometime. I appreciate all of your love and support and believe me, it does help me push through. You're both dear to my heart and I love you both very much. Sending love, {{{Hugs}}} and prayers your way. 💕🙏🏻🌻😊

Sep 23, 2016 6:36 AM

Alwayz, you have always been in my thoughts and prayers daily and I will say extra special prayer for your dad's surgery coming up. Still praying that they can find a solution to your sisters problem with not being able to take to chemotherapy. Sending you a lot of love, support and Prayer's and Sunshine to get you through these tough day's ahead. Luv you my dear friend.😘🙏🌞🌹💐🌈

Sep 23, 2016 12:34 PM

AlwayZ, it just breaks my heart for all the sadness you have gone through. Sadly, at our age it seems death is around every corner. My hubby has buried 9 coworkers over the past 18 months alone. And we've both had family deaths too. I guess the one true fact in life is that we all live to someday die. It's a very sad but necessary thing all must face, and as much as I've faced it, it never gets easier. I wish I could make it easier for you dear friend. Just try to focus on the good memories and times with those you've lost, and hopefully it will bring you comfort. I'm praying for your sister and your dad, and strength, courage, and endurance for you to get through it all. You are so caring and giving to others, unselfishly so. But don't forget to care for yourself too. Hugs love and prayers my friend! 🙂💕🙏🌸

Sep 23, 2016 4:12 PM

Sjogrenspain77 and Flappsylady thanks so very much for all the love and support you send my way. You've been by my side since I joined this community and have always been so understanding, kind and non judgemental. I appreciate that you feel I give so much of myself, sometimes I don't feel like it's nearly enough whether it be family or the community. I try to do my best to reach out and give everyone I can a lift and my time and some love. It's just who I am. I know I have to take care of me, it's something I tend to forget to do... LOL!! I guess I don't think I'm as important as everyone else but I've always felt that way and it's something I have always struggled with. It makes my heart feel full and happy when I know that there are people I can turn to who will be there to listen when I need to be heard. You're awesome friends and I'm blessed to have you in my life. Love, {{{Hugs}}} and prayers headed your way. 💕🙏🏻🌻😊

Sep 25, 2016 10:03 AM

Alwayz, that's what we're here for. We help support one another in all time's good and bad. Love you dear friend and will always here for you.

Oct 05, 2016 5:55 AM

I haven't heard from her in several months despite many attempts through a couple of methods. I hope that we hear from her soon

Oct 05, 2016 6:52 AM

Me too TiredInPainNInane,she has been through alot in her young life I hope and pray that everything is alright with her.

Oct 06, 2016 1:35 PM

So do I. I'm really worried that something bad has happened

Oct 06, 2016 1:36 PM

I wish we knew some way of checking on her!

Oct 06, 2016 7:18 PM

Is ferritbandit Jenna??

Oct 06, 2016 10:19 PM

I have PM'd her a few times with no response. Hopefully she is just busy with school...if I hear anything I will post it.

Oct 06, 2016 10:24 PM

Silvrrry- no, it's not Jenna 😊

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