Ex husband texted today--we haven't spoken to each other in two years and don't see each other --for a reason. Turns out My cobra health insurance messed up and has been sending copies of all of my health claims to my abusuve ex husband apparently all of this time. Enough that he essentially rejected me for being ill, though I wouldn't be with the likes of him again today, alcoholic and just plain mean. He freaking texted---he was annoyed and asked that I "remedy" this. he tried to challenge my illness during the divorce in order not to pay more and though that tack didn't work The bullying and stress took a huge toll and ultimately the Financial stress altered my life This is now another stunning invasion of privacy. I've done all I can to separate from him and try to move on and now this insult to dignity. He has now seen everything and I don't even know the beginning . it would be the same as him having access to to my journal for the past two years while he goes about his business ij his healthy body with all his money, and being able to track me without my knowing. I am overwhelmed . they are investigating it going to get back to me. I saidI want see every single EOB that went to his address, what exactly happened and why it happened. The woman said it happened at the big Blue Cross level not the independent contracting company. It's all I can do to handle the health insurance anyway, resolve claims, to get to these doctors and think of a reason to keep plugging through and now this. I'm sorry this may be a little off topic here but it's very real for me and a very real part of how illness and pain have affected me emotionally and financially and in all ways. The best thing I did for myself was not be in contact with him and at least know that he didn't know what was going on with me and now that's gone.