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Oct 09, 2017 12:31 AM

This weekend has been the worst , First on Friday my best friend died ( my dog) and the just a little while ago my Granddog died😢 on top of the stress I already have going on with my parents! Augh! My dog's were my life, they always made me laugh and smile, it's losing 2 of my family members so close together, I feel so numb like I am in a nightmare! My poor daughter is distraught, my Granddog died in her lap. I don't even know how to progress all this. I don't have tear's to shed anymore because of my disease. Please pray for my daughter . We have one dog left, please keep her in your prayers as well, all three dogs were close to each other, when my dog died the other two were there laying next to her and wouldn't leave her side until my husband burried her. I don't know if my Granddog died because of grief,but those 2 were really close to each other.

Oct 09, 2017 12:38 AM

This is my precious girl Abbey always loved being under the covers. Abbey and Rosie were really close to each other.

Oct 09, 2017 1:55 AM

Losing an animal is the same as losing a family member. I've lost two very close dogs to me in my life. I have two dogs, one who is 12 and one who is 10. They both have their health problems, and won't be around for a long time. It's heartbreaking.
The only advice I can give is to give yourself time to heal just as you would a family member. Your daughter too. You will heal together. Your dogs would want to you be happy. They will great you in heaven/next life. ❤️❤️

Oct 09, 2017 5:19 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss. Our pets are family.

Oct 10, 2017 1:41 AM

I’m so very sorry for your losses. You have my prayers.

Oct 10, 2017 1:50 AM

I am so sorry about your loss. I have had to put down 2 in the past year and half. While I am not religious I tell myself they are playing fetch in a beautiful field and chasing squirrels. They are pain free and carefree. Know that they are more angels to look after you. I am sending you a big animal lover hug. If you would like to talk ,cry, ect. Feel free to PM me.

Oct 12, 2017 2:46 AM

I'm so sorry for the loss of your best friend. I don't have children because of endometriosis and hyster so my 2 dogs are my babies. Allow yourself time to heal and ur daughter too, and then eventually maybe I can adopt another angel. Hugs and much love!

Oct 17, 2017 6:49 PM

Sorry for your loss, I lost a cat 5yrs ago he had Cancer it was horrible and I will keep you in my prayers. I talked to a pet bereavement phone line which was helpful and there is a site called Rainbow Bridge where you can read the resources and have a little photo memorial for your Dog's. Just be gentle and kind to yourselves right now. I am a spiritual person (not religious!) I believe that there is an Afterlife and your pets are in Heaven and they will always be with you! God Bless

Oct 21, 2017 5:06 AM

I am terribly sorry for your loses, I have had to go and identify a body of one of my pets..hardest thing I have ever done (and I have 3 Children girl/25 girl/21 boy/16(such an awesome kid) I have been blessed with wonderful children!

Oct 21, 2017 10:23 AM

So very sorry for your loss, I also just lost a fur baby just a couple months ago and it is heartbreaking. Praying for comfort for you and your family.

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