Im sorry youre down and feeling hurt, but good for you fluffmeister. Just remember that yor happiness is too important to let someone else control it. And life is too short to deal with A holes! Sending love and positive vibes your way. Always a click away
i have big heart i get hurt easily i get physically sick when my heart gets broken it was my mom she in kidney failure 63 cuss me for regular pist saying going take pics to my sis well u thought i said im doing for mom not you my mom went crazy on me never again
i have anxiety depression on top of fivro. my aunts house is a drama house with my fanily all of them fight. me my hubby live at our house im not hacing listening to bs drama i swear my mom acts just like my pap did to her yrs ago. he never did it to me
Ahh that's tough.. I'm just now starting to work on the relationship with my mom and let me tell you, like it or not, she will always be your mom. I obviously don't have all of the details but my situation (drama, depression, toxic family) was similar until I moved out and stopped speaking to my family unless it was on my terms. When I had enough, I wouldn't come around until I was ready again. Either people like that will take your words and actions into consideration out of love and respect for you, or they wont. It's all up to you in the end though. Where you decide to draw the line. Love yourself and be kind to others and positive people will fall into your life, while you'll start to notice the toxic ones will become more rare
what bothers me. mom has changed i have hard time accepting it cant go do with her anymore like talking i always went to her but i cant i feel like i have two dead parents but one my dad desead. if i had any issues she always helped me. cant do nothing all you here is bs no longer will listen to that anymore. she 30 to 45 mins away. im not wasting my time be ignored be afraid to talk to her. go up see her for nothing. i used make it a sunday trip. nope if she ask me i go up. if i havent made plans but dont volunteer go up.
i love my mom dearly but she never see me cry get upset around her i do with my hubby we keep it between us. i feel if she wants see me she come my way or to my work meet me. no longer tell her my days off . nobody ruinibg my days off spend those with hubby our furbabies and our we are decorating we remodeled.