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Everything is wrong

Jul 25, 2017 8:30 PM

Has anyone felt like everything they do or even say is wrong ? I feel this way more then 80 % of the time . Thuresday I have a doc appointment to see if I am. Add. Or ADHD.. I agree with the Add part . But I feel like I always let ppl down. Or get them mad at me really easy. I have a very hard time in different areas . I tell people to tell me what's not wrong with me . Because I feel like everything is wrong with me . I honestly just want to find a cave and be alone forever .

Sorry so long . And yet again negative.
Thank you for readying.

((Gentle hugs)) to everyone.

Jul 25, 2017 8:41 PM

There's no need to apologise that's what we're here for! I think your doing the right thing seeing your doctor that's really brave of you and I'm proud of you for doing that 😊You need to remember on your bad days that even if you feel very alone your not and that you have your husband and family and us and we will always be here to help you! If you want to chat about anything just pop in my pm 😊

Jul 25, 2017 8:54 PM

Thank you @ Littlelola. That's means a lot to me . I really appreciate you it and all of you . 🤗🤗🤗🤗

Jul 25, 2017 9:01 PM

No worries I'm always here to talk about anything!

Jul 26, 2017 8:14 AM

I'm glad you're going to the doc too. I have a tendency to not want to commit to anything because I've had to back out of commitments so many times that now I'm fun shy. I hate letting people down.

Jul 26, 2017 9:39 AM

Westrengirl you may feel this way but because you are so very self critical and judge yourself to much you don't see the good in yourself, you don't see that you care deeply, that you love your family, you love your daughter and you know her good points and her bad points and because of this you teach her right from wrong in the best way she will understand.

Unfortunately living with your in-laws makes you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells which doesn't help, it also knocks your confidence having to live with them but remember it's not your fault, you are a strong and resourceful mother, wife and woman. Try not to worry about what people think of you and just be yourself and if they don't like it then that's their problem not yours, they are jealous of who you are.

You are here to live your life and you should live in a way that makes you happy, the happiest YOU can be but don't try to make everybody else happy at your expense

Jul 26, 2017 10:26 AM

@ Frustrated. I am the same way. The feeling of letting people down is heart breaking. So I just keep to myself for the most part

Jul 26, 2017 10:26 AM

@ Frustrated. I am the same way. The feeling of letting people down is heart breaking. So I just keep to myself for the most part

Jul 26, 2017 10:26 AM

Not sure why that posted twice 🤔

Jul 26, 2017 10:31 AM

@ Sezzy. You know me too well without knowing me lol. Thank you. I try to be silly because it makes me feel good but anymore I feel like that's wrong too. 🤔😑

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