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May 29, 2016 3:42 PM

So I've not been super active here had a lot going on both good and bad . And as of late been dealing with the recent start up of testing for the next ohasr of surgeries. As some may imagine I've been increasingly more emotional. And I'm sorry to say I don't thing its gonna get any better any time soon.
My pain is off the charts and my activities are suffering although most I'm having to fouce myself to do. I posted something a few days ago and yes felt a little dejected. However, I. Aware of the fact I'm not alone here plus everyone here has the need as I do for kind compassionate understanding. I've always gotten the love I needed here and I just want to thank everyone for allowing me to be a little extra needy.
Also remember I'm not just here to take from y'all..please feel free to use to lean on me also. I'll do my best to help you through your rough patch. Thanks again.

May 29, 2016 9:36 PM

Newfibrogirl, it's OK to need others and vice versa. I've been on only randomly for over a week with everything I've got going on. I've noticed a lot of members are missing. I think we are all just dealing with a lot right now. I'm sorry you felt dejected because of it. Even when I'm not on here, I'm thinking and praying for everyone here. I hope your docs can get your pain under control soon. Hugs & prayers!! πŸ™‚πŸ’•πŸ™πŸŒΌ

May 29, 2016 11:09 PM

Dear Newfibrogirl,
That made me sad to hear you feel dejected. For me you are important. You are a big part of our community. To me you seem to be going through lots physically and mentally, uncertainty, frustration, pain. Your right it takes time, that's okay we will still be here.
I am guilty of not keeping up and supporting our group currently to. With treatment, problems with medications, my growing pain, surgery on Tuesday, family frustrations and keeping up with the world it is overwhelmingly confusing and completely impossible to keep up.🎭 You are not alone, you may feel that way that's for sure, but you aren't..πŸ‘«πŸ‘¬πŸ‘­πŸ‘―πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘§πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘¦πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§πŸšΆπŸ»πŸ‘­πŸ‘ͺ🐒🐘🐈🐩
Sending you a hug full of hope, Beets πŸ€—πŸŽˆπŸŒˆπŸŽˆ

May 30, 2016 12:14 PM

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May 30, 2016 12:18 PM

New, I am so sorry! I have been gone away from the site for a bit as well, except to try and keep updated on my Uncle. Things have been super crazy at my house and my pain and migraines are out of control but I am here for you 100%. You are Always in my prayer's if I'm on here or not. Love, Hug's and Prayers to you and may you have a complication free Surgery and a restful recovery. I'm here.πŸ˜˜πŸ’•

May 30, 2016 12:43 PM

I think that for whatever reason We are all having family crisis or our own crisis... For me it's been my older sister with her cancer returning, my aunt with lung cancer who is in ICU and too weak to get up and walk so they can't release her, my BFF flat out on her back sick and my neck doing that God aweful thing that it's been doing causing me 3-4 day migraines. Also carting my Dad to all of his doctor appointments. I have missed being here and checking on everyone. That's another reason that I think this forum needs a chat room where we can all get together and chat and not miss so many posts just because we miss a day or two.. Also, I think it would prevent duplicate posts and we would all be able to be caught up with each other on any given day. I hope you're all having a low pain day and know you're all in my heart, thoughts and prayers. {{{Hugs}}} πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ»πŸŒ»πŸ˜Š

May 30, 2016 10:35 PM

I think a lot of us here are having it rough and all at the same time unfortunately. I am having a hard time catching up with all the posts myself, got a Migraine working it's way back in so I took one of my Fioricet's and pray it kicks in before I have a full blown bad migraine. Just remember you still have family here even though they may not be able to check A all the time, they are still Praying for you just like Flappys, Alwayz and Myself said. We Love You and even though we cannot check in all the time we are still here praying. πŸ˜˜πŸ™πŸ’•

May 30, 2016 11:47 PM

I agree a chat room would be good.
@newfibrogirl Truly no need to apologize. I'm sure no one here thinks badly of anyone for not posting. I think I speak for all when I say, we just miss you and hope you're okay. Glad to see your update, and wish only to be of comfort and support.
((Hugs)) to all.

May 31, 2016 8:35 AM

We all understand, really we do! Us as you are going through the same feelings one way or another. We are all here for each other ❀️

May 31, 2016 9:37 AM

I want to thank you all for your kindness and love. I'm not surprised at all this place has always been a source of comfort and I supposewith all I've been dealing with i kind of melted down. With my health degenerating instead of progressing has just been hard to absorb ..
Autoimmune..thanks for you kindness I have missed y'all also and thanks for the understanding.

May 31, 2016 12:25 PM

Newfibrogirl, Accepting chronic health that won't improve is hard on all of us. With me being much older than you and so many of the younger ones here, it's hard to see you all struggle. You've been hit at a younger age and basically had to put living your lives & planning futures on hold. Don't be upset with yourself, or others who can't possibly understand, when you try to enjoy the far & few between reprieves that come out way. And let yourself grieve your loss. Big (((hugs))), love & prayers! πŸ™‚πŸ’•πŸ™πŸŒΌ

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