can someone help me with this topic? I have fibro an its been progressively getting worse over the course of 3 yrs. my husband at first denied anything wrong with me an claimed i was just looking for attention. he didnt offer massages ( when i was in pain ). then times he would say I love you an rub my hurtin feet but jus as fast he would stop. i would ask for rubs an he would say ( you know angel rubbing you hurts my hands ). i have staggered around the house like i have MS from my feet hurting.
( like cleaning the house ). an whatnot. he dont acknowledge it. he has blammed me for debt due to nuerology appoints
( before i was diagnosed ) . the nuerologist thought i had neuropathy. anyway.. he says things like how frustrating it is for him an how can one day i be ok an the next im not. he has saide dont know what to think about me. last nite when i was having terrible pain in my legs an my feet sweeled an it put me down...he went all day without askin me whats goin on with me.
( i tryed to talk to him bout it, but got the vibe that he didnt want to hear it ). I honostly feel his energy is not of wanting to hear bout it or deal with it. now when i ask for rubs on my feet he barely trys. an most certainly never offers! I need support from him. an to save money running out for massages, i look for him to help me. i was attending PT an he again balmmed me for debt. alrhough it was 25.00 a visit w/ insurance. 50.00 for nuerology an a few bigger co pays on MRI’s. im to my wits end. he says i was not like this when we met 3 yrs ago. an he said everytime he turns around im in pain an down. I aint sure if i suppose to b supporting him an am i bien selfish?? how can he claim so much frustration when the activities i once enjoyed are of a major decision if i wanna go 4 wheeling or fishing or hunting an suffer the concequences for 2 days after. an the fact that i am a heavy equipment operator for 17 yrs an now im stuck at home contiplating ( disability ). my whole life is upside down an HES FRUSTRATED!! he has never ever said
( angel i bet this is very frustrating for you ). i know he loves me but to me he not very supportive in this time.😒