Why can't anyone understand I try every day I get up and function (barley) I go to work I clean and cook because I'm a mum Inside I'm in pain ,outside I'm in pain ,it hurts to walk ,it hurts to lay down ,it hurts to sleep ! But I do it. !! And because I do it no one who knows me seems to think I'm as hurt and poorly as I am 🙈😢😡instead it's just assumed that I moan a lot or I'm mard It's hard enough without feeling like I can't say iv got a headache or my skin feels raw !because telling anyone a small part of how I'm feeling and getting rolling eyes 👀 make me feel like I should just give up All I want to do is stay in bed and cry and sleep or try to But I can't .... because too many people rely on me
Sorry had to have a vent I'm sooooo fed up I need some sunshine and heat 😢
Claw, it's okay to vent no need to apologize to us, we've all been in your shoes and it suckes! I have to take care of my kid's and the house work because people don't see to remember to do thier chores because"thier elbow hurt's!) Here I am in pain everywhere doing those people's chores! They don't seem to care about the health of the other person. they care only about themselves! I feel your pain, I'd love to just sit back and relax but I'm the only one who knows how to take care of the housework.
I had to learn to a saying and it sticks with me now and that saying is " I am who I am and your approval is not needed"
That saying has helped me a bunch when people try to get me angry. Hug's love and prayers to you hunni.