4 half hours my babys leaving for his new internship for 6 months!!! I been horribly Ill all day my tummy pains are out of control... My body's hurting so bad I been otta muscle rlaxers for days now see doc morrow hoping get a 50/50 mix get a pain med twice day and mucle relaer twice cuz where it's helped me be more active help clean more with out them I was a uddle of pain. So I won't complain if he says no but I'm request some thing stronger for a muscle relaxed.. The next weeks gonna be hard, I'm trying hold myself together till he leaves then I can seal this place up tighter then a virgin at prom, AND just let myself fall apart!!!! Not sure how yet I wil make it..
My positive soft soothing thoughts are with you. I am so sorry about the pain. And about your honey leaving. Your right about the positive of family leaving as you can be alone & not have to put on a happy face or feel you have to do something for them when you feel like crap..hang in there you are strong & tough. Look what you have dealt with so far. You are an amazing women.
See Mizzy I'm not the only one telling you how strong you are. You're body is reacting to your feelings and anxiety about Tree leaving.....6 months is all he's away for and you can do it, you've got your kittens, cat and sugar gliders along with all your family and friends around you....then there's me 😈 I hope you realise I'm gonna pester you so you won't have time to think!?! 😂😈😂 there'll be no peace for you my dear lady that's for sure 😂😱😂LMAO😂😱😂
MizzMonroe, I feel your pain, in 3 year's I have to let my babies go, my son graduate's high school and my daughter got this awesome opportunity to go to a school her sophomore year that by the time she graduates from high school she will have earned 45 hour's of college credits draw back is she will have to live in a dorm on campus. I know that it's better for thier future, but I sure didn't plan on them growing up so fast!
The 6 months will fly by and it will be like he never had to leave.
MizzMonroe - I know how hard it is to watch someone you love packing up and heading out. Born and raised Army here so we often watched dad leave for assignments. We also watched him come home. While we missed him we stayed busy.
Your body is most likely reacting to the stress you are feeling. Breathe sweetie. On the days you can't be strong come talk to us - we can be strong for you.
You can do this. Just breathe and know that just around the corner you have a joyful reunion to look forward to. Plan something special. That will help the time pass quickly too.
Hopefully your doctor can help you get to a manageable pain level hun.
@sjogrenspain77 u'r catapillars have grown and ready to fly that's beautiful... I just need make as close to a routine as possible next week my moms coming sys " I'm coming in mom ceaning mode I spend 6 hours deep cleaning tbe u just have to maintain it". Makes me Wanda cry, my mom has to clean my hose cuz I can't 😧😥I mean come on... Makes me feel the worst.. But my moms not or u can say no to so I'm spending time with my mom next week!!! I'm trying to do things little bit at a time.. Doc told me today I need to work harder on relaxing and destressing, that every thing has changed for me almost over night, that I'm not woman I use to be that doesn't mean I can't be a great one but one step at a time.. She said I try to do to much makes me sick... I need to learn to slow down and listen to my body... It felt good hear a doc tell me don't do it ifvu can't and that this change is temp that I can control things it's just gonna take some time and she wants to get me nto aqua therapy.. First time I'm being pescribed fibro meds she put me on Gabepentine 100mg first night week, second week 200mg I can go up one more time if I need.. She kept me on muscle relaxers she doesn't want me on narcos she says I'm not a good candidate.. Sigh