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Hi guys Shore here ......

Nov 20, 2019 5:00 AM

Hi I’m just have a hard time with my pain till I see the dr the 5 of December. Then see what’s the next step , then maybe v bc ask to the other dr on the 9 .
I’m just frustrated when I can’t do a lot of things I used to do . Like going out and doing errands with out pain now I am in pain and use walker ..., cane....
When I talk to others I can’t even say my ouch when I want to ,and I can’t help it when I do say that .. What’s a good word to say for this one any o bc e know? Or should I just hold it all in?...
I also get this your not out to much oh yes I am dr and such you just don’t see me out the tine you see me is all . .. what do I say to that hmmmm ?
Sorry vent hug .. now b I keep think should I of said a 6ir7 then they would of kept going with the Rhyitzotomy? Then I say no listen to your body not be nice about it like my therapist tells me ...
I’m not going to say what they want me to to move on when I’m even hurt and it still won’t work see ... Flappy lady I miss you come back we all do ..ty for all of your support every one...
I’m also tired more and thinking maybe it’s all in my head? I hope not hmm 🤔... then when I think of all of this I get bad head ach... I’m also try to hang in there . I’m also feel I’m not being herd at certain times it bug me .. also when I can’t go and do other thing it bug me .
I’m only 48 ish .. sigh 😔. I’m wondering. Something is it ok to cry when I can ? And say ouch? I’m going to ask therapy Friday..
Hugs Shore sorry longish 🌈🙏🙏🤗❤️❤️just frustrating me. I am also use medication and meditation to help some on my own time. Yup it. Helps later

Nov 21, 2019 1:43 AM

I’m sorry your in so much pain. Ido understand what your saying. It’s difficult when your out and your hurting. Your smiling on the outside and hurting on the inside. It’s fine to say ouch when your hurting if someone doesn’t understand then their not much of a friend. It’s hard to be able to accept that you can’t do the things you used to do because of your pain. Sometimes I push myself to do things thru the less painful days because I get angry with the pain. Medication can and does work but it’s a combo of body and mind. Trying to keep positive. It’s very difficult to do.

Shore I want you to know if for some reason I’m not responding for a very long time is because my oldest son pays for my phone and he’s fallen into trouble financially, so I might not be having a phone. So please don’t take it personally everyone if I’m not responding. I thought you should know. Love and best wishes to all. My best to to you FlappysLady, I enjoyed all our conversations. You’ll be ok Shore.

Nov 21, 2019 7:30 AM

Hi ty Pain I hope you feel better to . I chatted with my pastor and fiancé last it really helped ...
I’m going to listen to me not others what they say to do like be out more I’m stay in when I need to . I’m ajj oh so letting my past go little at a time .
Like my sister issues I’m move forward with my fiancé and my Bew Life ...yay ))))
I think I was hold on to my past was all.. Noe I’m doing my own thing my own time and when I can .. no worries 😉 Pain.. ty support I’m really glad I didn’t leave this site.
Hug to you all I hope you come back Flappy Lady miss you how are you animal hug Shore 🌈🙏🙏❤️cya

Nov 21, 2019 7:31 AM

I got fidget cube I really like it it really helps hug shore

Nov 21, 2019 11:33 AM

Hi guys today would of mark my Dads 81 . Who passed about 4 years ago. Sigh 😔 . I’m going to this event tonight at our manor Thanks Giving Day Dinner ...
I’m just trying to get my nerves up to be happy when I’m eh right now... hmm if they ask me how I am just not sure how to answer them is all...
Any that’s a bit a news on me I gtg eat lunch Shore sigh 🌈🙏🤗🤗

Nov 23, 2019 12:40 AM

Weddinfshore200- I'm sorry for your loss. The holidays are always difficult for those who suffer a loss. You need to remember to be yourself. You don't have to be dishonest but you don't have to give everyone your full medical history either. Those who care will draw close to you. You need to take care of yourself. When you feel well the do what you feel like doing but don't over do it. My doctors always told me I will pay for doing too much on the days I feel good. You don't owe anyone anything but love and respect. So don't sweat the small stuff. And learn you can not please everyone. Our illness can be exhausting on most days. I'm diagnosis with Chronic Fatigue also. I've experienced the touch/skin sensitivity also. So I am responding to more than one of your posts here.
Will continue to lift you up in prayer.

Nov 23, 2019 1:31 AM

Funny you mention touch so am I I go to church choir and some one touch my arm I only jumped and said ouch..
I couldn’t help it it surprised me a lot. Then I was having scheduled problems ... That I couldn’t get out of it was Monday when we had our church choir time also .. it was all just making me upset 😠...
I didn’t mean to even jump it surprised me was all. Then back to schedule. Then with all that some one I can’t say who they said maybe my options was to ,, take a leave of absence till January .. that made me more upset I love to sing grr..
They wanted me to figure this all out and come back an option. I said no I can deal fine this sing help me to be happy . You take that away I’m not happy I told them . It the one thing besides my fiancé that’s keeping me going ..
I shouldn’t be upset right? But I am . I can’t even sleep 😴... grrr 😠. Not sure what’s going on here . Sorry I’m gently I gtg try sleep or rest up . I’m listen to tv distracted by it ..btw they said I can still come so that’s all ok it just how they were say it to me at the time ..
Hug gently ty support omg hug Shore 🌈🙏🙏❤️

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