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Nov 22, 2015 2:31 AM

Please i didn't mean to get y'all upset but i really feel sad i just lost my mum.. She had chronic pain and i feel like am just gunna waist away .. Am so sorry

Nov 22, 2015 6:15 AM

I can understand being sorry that you just lost your Mother. And, if she lived a painful life and died the same way, then I can sympathize with you. I don't know how old you are but the things you said were so very inappropriate and unnecessary that it is unconscionable. Perhaps what you need is a bereavement support group. I don't necessarily think this is the forum for you. Know that you have been turned in to the administrator of the app and whatever action they deem appropriate, they will administer, including banning you from the site. I will say a prayer for your Mother's soul and if you are indeed being truthful, I will pray for you as well. Please refrain from degrading these wonderful people any further. We suffer in pain daily and do not need to be stressed by your rude behavior. Please give strong thought to what I have said. I am not in any way a cruel person. You have so far presented yourself as a drug pusher/dealer and a downright pervert. I think you need to do some soul searching yourself.

Nov 22, 2015 12:45 PM

Dude, grief is one thing, but it does not justify your treatment of other humans. We are people, but your words distance you from our community.
Many of us face death, and have dead family members. We talk about it, learn to cope, leave to be with our remaining loved ones, but are still kind.
Sad, and unthinking are totally different things. Death is horrible, but if you hurt us you're just creating more hurt.
It is not called for, especially here.

Nov 22, 2015 1:14 PM

There is a point when "I'm sorry" is not good enough. I do forgive you because I have no room or time to hold any extra baggage. And the pile you tried to dump on us and me I reject. I do indeed hope to never hear from you again. But I do pray you heal and find peace in life.

Nov 22, 2015 3:05 PM

Rick,
You can not bring you loss pain or whatever it is and dump it on innocent people.
What yourself and be very careful not to hurt people for life may slap you in the face one day. You've already lost a loved one most of us have too.
What have we done to you, it's not our fault we are still here suffering and your dearest mother has left us.is that why you are targeting us, we are not your enemies the pain is and we too are fighting it.
So please leave this place so we can get our peace of mind, especially cea, leave her alone find another place to take out your anger.

Nov 22, 2015 3:23 PM

Rick,
Here is not the place to bring your loss or pain and just dump it on us. We have done nothing to deserve that. I'm sorry, at this point is not good enough, but I forgive you.
All of us here are dealing with life-altering conditions, none of which we chose to have. If you are angry, please do not target us with your anger. Go and find a bereavement support group, but leave us be in peace.

Nov 22, 2015 3:58 PM

I know what Rick did last night was wrong, so I'm going to say this before I have a heart attack or break down! I know loss I am facing it now head on, If your pain is from you losing your mother please seek help, this is not the kind of attention you need. You need councilor or therapist who can help you in the correct way and you need the right kind of support group for grief, You added extra stress to many of us last night alme included and now talk about death sent me even further into a pain flair that I cannot seem to get rid of but I am making my peace and saying I Forgive you! Please get the right kind of help, and I will be praying for you!

Nov 22, 2015 8:55 PM

I forgive you, now go.

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