Since I was diagnosed with Sjogrens I have allot of days where I can't do anything, this month has been one long flair and my poor husband works his honey off outside and then comes in a does the dinner dishes. I feel so useless! I know I have the conserve my energy for having to work the concession stand on Friday night.. every school year I am always busy having to do stuff for the band booster committee since I am thier secretary so it's safe to say that even though I am just the secretary, I have been doing allot of the other officer's work to because they have job's and I am a stay at home wife/mother so I could get more work done. But when heading to use all my energy for that I am so exsausted that all I can do is crash on the bed and not move. I sometimes wonder what my husband thinks... Does he think I'm just being lazy? Or does he really understand... Either way I hate it.. I Like to try and get things done on the inside just like he works hard on the outside.... My house isn't dirty, just have clothes that are hanging on the back of the chairs that needed to be hung up. And maybe vacuum the floor again. Ugh I hate this!