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If you had 3 wishes?

Apr 26, 2016 4:00 PM

Yesterday I went to have psychological testing done due to memory problems. They asked me if I had 3 wishes, in regards to what I wanted to get from my appointment and future appointments with them what would they be.

I quickly said I only need 1 wish and that is I want to feel better.

I felt good about that answer at the time. I though it showed how happy in my life I was and that all I needed was for the pain, emotionally and physically to stop.

But now as I have time to reflect I wonder is that really a productive way to "wish"?

Maybe I should be better prepared for this type of question in the future. Like
1. I want to know if my memory issues are caused by issues I already know of or something new.
2. I want to be treated with respect in the fact that what I say is true and of serous consern to me.
3. I want clear goals set between us as they relate to what I have told you concerns me and what you feel could help.

So anyone want to share?
What are your 3 wishes as they relate to your next doc visit?

Apr 26, 2016 4:42 PM

My 3 wishes are


Apr 26, 2016 5:15 PM

Oh stupid phone!

Okay let's try this again!

1.) For my Obgyn to LISTEN and take heart of my concern's to me and take out the Essure ( per my doctor the cause of my Lupus and Sjogren's Syndrome) before it causes anymore damage.

2.) For my Rheumatologist LISTEN and take heart of my concerns and to be able to find a great treatment for the 2 mentioned above and keep my symptoms at Bay as long as possible.

3.) For my cardiovascular doctor to keep my heart running in tip top shape a very long time and to continue to listen to me and take to heart my concern's.

If I had 3 normal wishes they would be

1.) No pain

2.) No death

3.) For no to struggle with food or shelter.

Apr 26, 2016 5:29 PM

When I went into counseling I was asked pretty much the same thing my answer was to learn to accept my conditions. I couldn't really think of anything else either.

For my health my wishes would be 1. To keep fighting for myself with doctors. 2. To work as hard as I can with exercises no matter how short of time to help myself. 3. To listen to my doctor's at what could be of benefit and be willing to try suggestions, new ideas and different medications.

Apr 26, 2016 11:54 PM

Mine are
1)no more pain
2)old horse trainer teaching me
3)have my own horse

Apr 27, 2016 1:47 AM

1.) To feel well enough to contribute.
2.) Health, enough to enjoy life.
3.) Leave my family something to help carry them through their days, when I die.

Apr 27, 2016 4:04 AM

Moparmom - get another gyn to remove that ESSURE. My daughter had one and she was miserable until she got hysterectomy to remove all but the ovaries. Google Essure problems.

Apr 27, 2016 4:21 AM

MissMisery -
My Wishes
1) to be able to sleep
8hrs/night and wake up feeling rested.
2) Be able to plan my day and actually enjoy my days. Have less pain and fewer side effects.
3) be able to balance my medications, with alertness so i can be able to function when my bad pain flares up.

Apr 30, 2016 1:55 AM

Have a smile on my face.
Be free off pain
Be happy and enjoy live witch I try and do now.

Apr 30, 2016 12:17 PM

To be able to take away everyone's pain
To enjoy life as I always did
To have the world make sense again instead of all the hate and killing going on

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