Hello everyone, its been quite a few days since I've been here but I see you guys have been very busy when I see all the post here now. I hope I don't get lost in the shuffle.
My week actually the last two weeks have been hell.(sorry for language ) however right now ...............
OK..I'll just start, first my health and mental status has been in the pits. Insurance woes was my last post whichbis still a real issue. Then as if I did not have enough to deal with my mom has to have emergency heart surgery. So the last 48 hours are a blur.
It started by mom having a cold her general Dr sent her in for a bunch of test. She ended up having a five hour stress test. The next day Dr called and said come in asap. Her appointment was at noon by 2pm she was being admitted by 4 she was in surgery. Ended up.having four stents placed in the right side of her heart full blockage plus three other areas were partially blocked.
On top of that my dad who has two cancers who was at home alone. Having to organize a group of people to go look after him while me and my sister were at the hospital with mom. It was truly awful.
Thankfully mom is home now and the real work.begins to get her to rest and not stress over day to day stuff. And all the while me being at the helm now to care for two elderly parents. While dealing with abdominal tumors and fibromayalgia. My pain is off the charts but yet can't stop can't let on that I'm in pain. My uncle who also has fibromayalgia could see my pain and pulled me to the side and reminded me to not forget about myself. It's hard to put yourself ahead of family especially parents. I've found myself being very short tempered and kind of bossy since mom has been home
Dad really pulls on mom for all his care so I've had to tell him that he is gonna have to help us by helping himself. I mean he can do some things for himself but mom never lets him care for himself.
This is just an unbelievable time of testing I have no idea how this is gonna play out.
I'm just needing so much help fr anyone from everyone...I just need..........