Hello, I am new to this app and community. I have had unexplained foot pain for 16 years, on and off for unknown reasons, which has been very debilitating but I "look normal". I also get headaches, have very dry eyes, neck pain, back pain, sacroiliac instability, fatigue, depression, irritability. Two days ago, an older man made a comment that I can walk and am not disabled, as he saw me walking to my car. I had my weight on the cart, was walking slowly, limping and had my cane-chair with me. He was impatiently driving through the lot and didn't wait for me to cross. He parked in handicapped next to me, left an elderly woman in the car, and walked out. He made me feel terrible and I talked back to him, trying to defend myself. I called police when he came back and he refused to give his name and then drove off. I cried for an hour and felt defeated. I was trying so hard that day to walk but my pain had already come back so I had already failed and was in pain. It's so hard to always be in pain, that nobody can see, and constantly feel judged for. Small comments when I'm using my knee scooter about how fun it looks, ranging to this ignorant jerk. It makes me not want to leave the house and ashamed to use my knee scooter or chair, and then afraid to be judged either way. It's so hard for me to walk and get around, and now I also feel defeated and don't want to try. How do others deal with it?