Learn from patients with pain similar to yours

CatchMyPain Community and Pain Diary App to manage chronic illness

Just need to vent.

May 15, 2016 7:59 PM

Had some really good days also filled by the usual crappy ones. Now haveing to realize I need a cane to move around really hit me. Tonight my stomach decide to go all crazy and I was not able to eat nor drink. It all just sat there. Of course mom was no help the one time I really needed some TLC. But I suppose I'll just keep being a big a girl and tend to myself.

May 15, 2016 8:11 PM

Newfirrogril it's too bad that you have to feel that way. I have family that is that's like that why. I know sometimes I complain about hurting too much.I

May 15, 2016 8:15 PM

Grizzlybearricck..I'm.sure you don't complain all that much and if u do u have good reason. My mom tends to.hover over this GS and situations that don't need it. Such as why my cousin moved in atl and why my neighbor is not home yet. Lol..but when her child who.she knows has several serious health issues tells her she can't get food or drink down she decides to take a nap. Humph...but oh well..I know I can come here and find some caring and concerns .

May 15, 2016 8:16 PM

I'm sorry I wasn't even done yet and I accidentally sent it I'm sure your mom cares for you. I truly feel empathy for you it's hard doing these things alone. I hope that somebody takes the time to listen I will send more later God bless you and I hope you find some relief

May 15, 2016 8:19 PM

I really will get back with you on this nobody really listens around here either. We all need to vent and to be cared about hard to talk right now I'm in so much pain. I hope you find some relief God bless

May 15, 2016 8:23 PM

Thank you..I appropriate you taking the time to help me while u are in need yourself. If u need me or want to talk I'm here also for you. I'm hoping your pain lightness soon. Rest well.

May 16, 2016 1:31 PM

Newfibrogirl, when you feel like absolute shit it's only natural to want the TLC from your Mom. Coming from someone who's Mom doesn't know what to do with me, I understand how you feel. Even if she just came over and put her hand on mine or gave me a hug or even said, I wish there was something I could do or is there anything I can do. I feel your pain. Don't think any worse of yourself, we ALL need someone to take care of us from time to time. If I were near, I'd come over and take care of you myself. {{{Hugs}}}} 💕🙏🏻🌻😊

May 18, 2016 8:48 PM

Newfibrogirl, I'm sorry. Do you know why your stomach was acting up? I hope it's calmed down by now. I remember how I felt when I realized i needed a cane all the time, and I'm 54. It gets easier to accept when you get support from strangers in public places, or it did me. I'm just trying to catch up on posts. Hugs& prayers you feel better soon! 🙂💕🙏🌼

Jun 23, 2016 5:47 PM

Awww sweety I know how u feel ppl don't c ur pain therefore they don't understand ur pain but I'm here if u need to vent or let me know ur hurting I will say a prayer for u and hope u have a better day

Jun 24, 2016 12:34 AM

Sorry to hear that you're suffering and feeling alone. I live with 2 other people and I have felt very alone these last couple of years.
I'm sure that your Mum does love and care for you, even if you don't feel she is showing it. Trust me, I'm a Mum and we get it wrong a lot.
I hope you start to feel better and we'll be here if you need us.

Ready to start relieving your pain?

Join Community