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Jan 20, 2020 7:53 AM

Sorry, I just need to vent. Work life and home life is hostile, a girl I work with at my first job is an un medicated bi polar knife carrying crazy person who for some reason or other has it out for me, so it’s been one constant barrage attacks after another, and then I get home it’s my husband telling me what my kids are doing wrong or what I’m doing wrong and that I need to pick up more hours when I’m already working 6 days straight, this week it was 7 and before the week is over it wil be 13-14 day’s days before I see a day off. I have no friends nor no family and I have to practically beg to go see my family once every couple of years if I’m lucky 😞. Last time I went down was for my dad’s funeral. Just frustrated with everything at least my second job the people I work with are nice, that is my only saving grace at this moment. Sorry for the long rant everyone.

Jan 20, 2020 12:01 PM

Hi if you ever on and I am I’ll chat with you ))) I’ll pray for you also ok ?
I hope things look better soon .i would tell the boss if I were you )))
Or go to some one there who can help with you ...
hug I gtg now.. choir soon Shore ))))🙏🙏🤗❤️❤️🌈

Jan 21, 2020 7:36 AM

I wish I could shore, she is like his golden girl, so she practically gets away with anything and everything and nothing ever gets done. He’ll “ write her up” and “ warn “ her but that’s it and she chases off everyone she doesn’t like. Well she is not chasing me off, I need this job and it’s benefits, but it just doesn’t help my my stress and the way it’s sets off my Sjogrens and lupus pain. So now I have to find a way to ignore her and avoid her, so far so good on it today, we’ll see how the rest of the day goes! Have a blessed day everyone! 😘

Jan 21, 2020 8:39 AM

Ok just let me know ok ))) Shore 🙏🙏🤗❤️🌈 hug gently

Jan 21, 2020 12:01 PM

Moparmom, I'm sorry to hear what you're dealing with, both at work & at home. How many complaints have you filed against the co-worker? If necessary go over your bosses head to HR, and if that doesn't work seek legal counsel for "hostile work environment," it's against the law. As for your spouse, does he pick up extra hours or jobs? Does he not understand you are doing more than your best? Can your rheumatologist speak with him about the added stress can worsen your illnesses and make it where you can't work at all? It took my doc nailing my hubby to the wall, so to speak, before the lightbulb really clicked on about my health limitations. Sending you hugs love & prayers for a better week ahead!😊💞❤🙏🌹

Jan 21, 2020 9:25 PM

Moparmom, so sorry to hear about your work and home situation. This coworker sounds like a real piece of work. You sound overwhelmed at home to. I think FlappysLady said it right. Maybe it would help to have your doctor lay down the law to your hubby and explain to him what all this additional stress will do to your health. Better for him to back off now then when it would become to late. Would having a heart to heart with him help any? I’ll pray for your situation and hope that the pressure becomes less for you. Take care. Sending you some gentle hugs {{🤗}} sounds like you could use some. 🌺🦋

Jan 22, 2020 5:43 PM

Hi guys I made it to Sunny Florida . I’m here till Saturday hug gently to all Shore🙏🤗🤗🌈❤️

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