I recently got results form my latest scan, mostly stuff i already knew but there was more. Herniated disc's pressing on nerves, osteoarthritis and the recent development degenerative disc disease.
I go home to talk with my husband about having another child, I'm 26 and already have a 2 year old.
I say to him that if we were to have a second child it would have to be soon as my condition will get worse with time.
Not a week earlier he was saying 'it would be nice to have a girl' and he felt like 'something was missing'. All of a sudden now that there is a time limit he's saying he 'doesn't know' and he's 'happy with just one child' and 'maybe we should stay with one'.
I have no idea what to think, or what to do.
Regardless or whether i want another or not it all come down to his decision but he his giving me nothing.
How do i get him to have a serious conversation about me getting off my pain medication and actually making a decision?