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Loosing people.... I'm loosing my mind..

Mar 19, 2017 8:57 AM

I'm becoming cold, bitter, as I just lost three people I known 10 years, this hurts so badly I can't even tell u... I wanna cry but. I know that just start more pain, so I try not to my brain races n races what could I have done but nothing comes, so I'm over wellmed with agony.... Whhhhyy??? I'm so tired of loosing 😭😭.tired of being lonely n sad.... Just fucking tired 😧😭

Mar 19, 2017 9:10 AM

(((((((( gentle hugs ))))))) am so sorry hun.

Mar 19, 2017 10:53 AM

I know, but you gained relationships through your chronic pain. All struggle in one way or another.

Mar 21, 2017 7:56 AM

Ah Mizzy I know it hurts soo much especially as they've not given you a reason, they just unfriended and blocked you 😞 but at some point in the future you will realise that their time in your life had to come to an end so you can move on to the next stage of your life.
People will always come into our lives and some will stay forever but some will leave us....Some you will be very happy that they've gone but some like these will just disappear for no reason you can think off. If they choose to leave you life that is their choice but IT ISNT YOUR FAULT.
When the hurt starts to go you'll realise this and that you have yet to meet more people some will be great friends and make you happy....Hold on it will get better xx

Mar 21, 2017 10:55 AM

I'm so sorry you are going through this but just remember you aren't really ever alone! I know from experience that, if you let Him, God will carry you through it all. God bless you with love & comfort! {{{{{Gentle hugs}}}}}}}

Mar 21, 2017 11:09 AM

Hi Mizzy 🤗🤗 I'm sorry you are dealing with this . I just want numb to it because I got use to it . It is very sad . I just had a friend who walked out of my life after 20 years. My mind was also racing. I even asked the person why and never got a reply.

This is Not your fault. It is on them Not you. Maybe they have things they need to deal with and the only way they know how is to push people away that cares about them the most. 💗

Stay strong sweetie . Head up high . This pain will pass and you will grow stronger as a person .. ( gentle hugs ) you got this ..

Mar 21, 2017 11:48 AM

Remember if they chose to let you go it's their loss not yours. People who care about you and love you for who you are ,are still here. Big gentle hugs my lovely xxx

Mar 21, 2017 12:11 PM

Dizzi. I agree . Sadly my experiences has been the same as Mizz . 🙂

Mar 21, 2017 12:20 PM

Big hugs lovely xx

Mar 21, 2017 3:04 PM

What I've said to MizzMonroe goes out to all, if they leave then that's on them not your fault. People will come, some will stay but some will leave. It's hard when they leave and you don't know why because you get no closure, no reason why they've left. Maybe in time you'll find out but sometimes you'll never know, those are the hardest to let go but it's not your fault. All you can do is work through the grief of them leaving and know that it is time to leave them in your past while you keep looking forward to what comes next into your life.
Keep being positive and keep your head held high....It's your life and your happiness, if you keep looking back for the why's and what if's you'll be trapped in the past not able to move forwards

Mar 21, 2017 3:51 PM

Get the book "The Four Agreements" Awesome read

Mar 21, 2017 11:17 PM

I so understand you"re struggle.... i was also recommended a very good book " Reality Slap" by Russ Harris.
Great read. I wish i knew about it 2 years ago.

Mar 27, 2017 5:30 AM

@2sweet, you are right I have I tresure them they know me... Love me for me myself n I...

Mar 27, 2017 5:33 AM

Thank you pondy, u need become a therapist no kidding y'all this lady's my best friend my confidont she's my EDDIE my bugs to her daffy she gives best advice in best ways I love you pondy I do I do 💖💖💖🙈

Mar 27, 2017 5:36 AM

@westrengirl thank you I'm trying little by little, it's like having a damn boyfriend memories every where and she use make a lot my jewlery so I got find a good place to lock them up throw away key or I never touch another piece and I love the jewlery she made me.... 😧

Mar 27, 2017 5:38 AM

I check both books out however I'm not big reader I have issues it bothers me so I get mad give up lol..

Mar 27, 2017 5:40 AM

Thank u every one, I know I have not really Bern around, I in a routine sticking working. Best it van I have Pondy shhe takes great care me an I try to take as good care for her as we'll... My art as we'll I started a site, if u like to check out my art page please do... Https://www.facebook.com/CJSCREATIONS777

Mar 27, 2017 6:41 AM

Mizzy you're too kind, I only say what I see and feel. I'm glad I can help you, I'm sad that I can't come and give you a hug when you need one ☚ī¸ you help me just as much as I help you and your my confidont as well xx

Mar 27, 2017 6:53 AM

MizzMonroe, I recently had a friend leave me, we've known each other since High School, but I just figure it's thier loss not mine... If they treat you like that no matter how long you have been"friends" then they we're not a Friend at all. True friends stay no matter what. So I say... Good riddance! We don't need people who are just going to be thier when it's good, you need them at all stages of life.

Mar 27, 2017 8:13 PM

True, thank u 😘

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