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Jan 18, 2016 11:05 AM

Where to start Christmas Eve I had to call the police as my husband was threatening suicide we managed to get in home ,Boxing Day he left us since I've been alone with my 15 years ,we thought its was to do with council tax and normal pressure builds up a Christmas that's what he put on the suicide note little did I know that he would drop a bombshell the turnaround and saying that he didn't love me any more and that was it we still see , once or twice in a week,and he can still cope doing his "benefit resolutions" that's his so-called business working for the disabled ,unless you're his wife,can't eat can't sleep ,and still No help from anybody ! Don't know how much longer I can carry on !πŸ˜­πŸ˜–

Jan 18, 2016 12:40 PM

Honeybee so sorry to hear your going through this, I can only suggest you see your doc and see if he can help maybe with some therapy etc. Have you no friends or family you can ask for help from until your strong enough to cope better. I feel your husband may also need assistance with his threat of suicide and now this massive upheaval . it is quite hard to define the role of carer and husband sometimes and it sounds like he possibly needed more support also in coping with everything life throws at us . this group is a great source of advice and friendship so chat away maybe one of the others can offer more practical advice to you.
Thinking of you and hoping for better days ahead, big hugs xx

Jan 19, 2016 9:42 AM


I am so sorry you have been handed so much and all at once. Please do seek medical help and counseling at your earliest convenience. Will be thinking of you and praying for you. Keep us posted please.

Jan 20, 2016 7:31 PM

Honeybee, I'm an so sorry you are going through this. We are all here for you. But please ask for counseling, to help you adjust to all these changes and not feel so alone and overwhelmed. Maybe with counseling your husband will get the help he needs too. You will both be in my prayers. I'm in counseling myself because of being overwhelmed with constant changing health issues, having no social life, etc. Sending you hugs of support, and prayers you will get help from family & friends. πŸ™‚πŸ™πŸŒΌπŸ’•

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