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My attitude sucks..sorry

Apr 19, 2016 9:56 AM

I see a lot of stress headed my way and some thst has already come. My uncle died he lived in Michigan so we can't gontonthe funeral. Mom is upset because I didn't react the way she thought I should. My sister has been stressing a bit. And the big one been in a fight with my boyfriend whonive been with for six years and I don't know if we're gonna make it. I can't talk to my family abkut him since they never liked him anyway. My so called best friend basically dismissed my whole painful heart over this situation by saying she has seen me as single for years anyway. Thankfully I did have another friend who was able to take to me about this. But I'm still.having issues processing it. I don't know how or if I even need to try and fix this. Fortunately, I do have some good things to look forward to. I won a fre makeover and invited to a women empowerment dinner. I'm super happy about this. I just don't know how I'm gonna process all this. But hopefully it'll go by quickly.

Apr 19, 2016 10:24 AM

You are strong an you got this. One day one thing one situation at a time. May start with the most pressing first and put them in an organized file on paper if you have to so you can deal with it one at a time. That is what I have had to do. If itmdoes not get done within six months to a years well it was not that importantπŸ‘ Hopemit gets better for you. Had to do what works for you and your support system.

Apr 19, 2016 2:41 PM

Oh no. Sorry for your loss on top of all the other crap you are going through. Sending hugs and well wishes your way.

Apr 19, 2016 3:35 PM

Hey Newfibrogirl, do you love him? You can reply in the circle if you want.

Apr 19, 2016 3:55 PM

Terri..I can say yes I do. .. I've already started a chat in the circle. Ill meet ya there I'd love to hear your input on it.

Apr 20, 2016 11:21 AM

Hey Newfibrogirl I hear what you're saying. You ARE strong and you will process this all in time. Take your time. I'm sorry to hear about your Uncle. My condolences to your family. Sending many {{{Hugs}}} your way. You know I love you!! πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ»πŸŒ»πŸ˜

Apr 20, 2016 6:31 PM

Newfibrogirl, I'm sorry for the losses of your uncle. It's hard when you can't make it to a funeral. I missed my uncle's funeral last year. I'm also sorry about your fight with your boyfriend. In my opinion true love is worth fighting for, worth working through the ups & downs, & ins & outs. You need time to work through this, to decide what you want to do. Hugs & prayers!

Apr 20, 2016 6:36 PM

Thank you flappys, it means a lot to have the support of all you guys. Flappys, our relationship has been one that has had to push through a lot. And now that I'm sick and I'm.far away from him its hard on is both. And thank yo for your condolences.

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