Ok, my son and daughter in law bought me a ticket to come visit them. Awesome! So I've been getting ready. Getting everything for Lilly (my service dog) and trying to make sure that everything is clean in the house. With fibro flaring, some weird new jerking thing and my vertigo all cranked to high.
My daughter decided to break down crying about how john doesn't watch for anything and he's not responsible. that she's scared I'm not coming back, I'll die and leave her alone. Plus I always care for her dog and if I'm not there Violet will get loose and get run over or stolen while she's at work.
I try to explain that it's only 10 days, I'm sure her brother can watch me for that long. Lol.
I ask what am I supposed to do. She says nothing you can do, you just have to live with the fact that I'll be scared and upset all the time your gone. And Violet will just have to get over that you are leaving her here alone......my daughter is 30. She lives in the house next to me. ...I was in tears after awhile. I don't know what to do. She's in a lot of pain too, but that doesn't excuse this.
Down to 3 days before I leave and I have to fix the dog yard, (because now I am worried about violet. ) shop and clean and cook so my family is set for 10 days. Plus vet check, hair dr appointment. .....and she won't help because she hates I'm going.
I can get everything done. ..I'll be a wreck on the plane and several days after, but I can do it. Or I can try to rest up for the 9hr flight that terrorizes me, leave the dishes and laundry and try, try, to have fun with with my son.
Anyone have anyone like her in their life? How do I handle her and survive?