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Aug 16, 2015 8:07 PM

good evening. Commun today is august 16' 2015 I feel a. Lil depress today today is my mother death anniversary and my husband my mother has been gone. For. 7 yrs and my husband has been gone for 19 yrs but. They both are with me. In. Spirit haveing lower back. Pain and mirag๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐Ÿˆ

Aug 16, 2015 8:13 PM

Hi Adams - I'm sorry for your losses and the way you are feeling...i know its not easy but know that there are people here who understand. I hope your pain eases soon!

Aug 17, 2015 8:30 PM

Adams, I'm very sorry for your loss. My mom passed away in'99 after constant hospitalizations for over a year. Her death anniversary date use to stay fresh in my mind, until I decided I'd rather remember her birthday. Well, that and my dementia & fibro fog. I still remember, but I know she'd rather me remember her in happy times, rather than the last week of her life. I literally remember every second of the night she died, and as much as I try to forget it, it's burned into my memory. Remembering it year after year made me sick and angry and anxious. She wouldn't want me to feel that way, and that why I remember her birthday instead. I planted a yellow rose bush in my yard because she loved them, it was her favorite. As time passes I hope and pray your dad memories will be replaced by happy moments of times with your mom, and your husband. And I hope your pain and migraines eases up by tomorrow. ๐Ÿ™๐ŸŒผ

Aug 17, 2015 9:42 PM

So sad for your losses. My mother passed 2 years ago. I think about her every day. She had Alzheimer's. Try and remember good things. Some day e will all be united in heaven. Until, carry them in your heart and feel their love.

Aug 18, 2015 9:33 AM

All my family is gone so just me and my kids. My dad's death and birthday get to me most. I would have loved to see him grow old so every birthday of his reminds me at 54 he was to young to die. Other family that passed is more situational. Christmas is absolute worse as memories of family gatherings. It seems like it is another trigger with my fibro maybe just my depression.

Aug 18, 2015 11:53 AM

I understand how you feel, but just remember they are dancing on the street that paved with gold enjoying the concert given by the angels

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