Hey all. I haven't been around a lot. Between a wicked shoulder injury and finding out my mother is fighting for her life right now, and tying to deal with my abusive family, where's there's been some estrangement and all blame is on me, trying to decide whether to fly home into the Lions den without my Hubby, because I live numerous Provinces away, and not having the money to do all this has been a nightmare. My mother is on life support in a medically induced coma. Before it got this bad she told my family not to tell me she was sick because I didn't care enough to stay in contact. That's bullshit their abuse is horrendous to say the least. I had to separate myself to survive. Because they are narcissistic, they only see what they think I haven't done and nothing I have done which is a lot. They were never there for me, even when I was fighting my life. My 14 year old Nephew didn't know not to tell me so he let me know. How sad that kid felt he had to tell me. I haven't had time to wrap my brain around my mother's likely death because I'm dealing with constant attacks from family. It's so tiring. They don't acknowledge my illness at all.