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My stress levels are so high

Oct 23, 2016 7:25 PM

I'm sorry but i hate sitting here listening to my mom just ball faced lie. I'm sorry yes, she my mom but lieing is never ok.. I'm sitting her listening to lie about the events of today.
I really don't even want her to be here for my surgery. I know it's bad. But if y'all knew all I had to endure just to get to the hotel you would understand.. I'm not even gonna get into it because I've finally calmed down from that.
I'm tring to just ignore her as much as possible but it's hard.

Oct 23, 2016 8:06 PM

I'm si sorry you're going through so much stress. I completely understand the thing with your mum. I really hope things get calmer for you. It might be hard but think positive thoughts. Everything's going to be ok

Oct 23, 2016 8:09 PM

Thank you...it's really hard being in this position. The one of lack of finances and having to deal with constant pain. Mom is talking bout leaving early and rushing my dr appointment all because of her poor planning and refusal to listen to anyone else.
I'm really working on calming myself so that I'm not in bad shape tomorrow. I appricate all of u guys for enduring my rants.

Oct 23, 2016 8:33 PM

Thats what we're here for.
Sounds very annoying, I have a mother like that.
Just try not to let her manipulate you. We are all here for you

Oct 23, 2016 9:25 PM

Am so sorry hun. I can't imagine what you must be going through at a time when stress is the last thing you need. Please don't let her rush anything though. This is about you and sweetie, you deserve the best care you can get. When is the surgery?
It always helps me to write down any questions I might have so I don't forget anything - especially if either I or the doctor is rushed.
It's so hard to stand your ground against a parent no matter what age you are, but sometimes you just have to - especially when it involves your health.
((((( gentle hugs )))))

Oct 23, 2016 11:27 PM

Hugs. I'm so sorry u r going through that! It's never easy delinking with parents

Oct 24, 2016 1:14 PM

I'm so sorry to hear of this unneeded stress Newfibrogirl! Imagine you are a horse with blinders on, and don't look in her direction. And imagine having temporary hearing loss when she speaks. Focus on your needs and your doctor's & nurses only. Hugs love & prayers for a full & speedy recovery! 🙂💕🙏🌸

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