Text isn't a good means for expressing the non-verbal parts of our dialogs. But, granted I indeed realize and have to utilize humor in order to, cope and retain hope, let alone add some control over our circumstances.
You all should remember the commercial where the (young, healthy, agile) woman lays on the bed to pull up & zip her jeans. I now play that part daily, older, fatter, & decrepit joints, just to pull on my compression stockings. I have to laugh! 🙂💕🙏🌼