So I had my surgeons appointment this afternoon. What a piece of crap that was. Got one small abscess lanced, but apparently my PCP failed to call their office about the belly pain. I felt about 2 inches small this afternoon. I tried explaining to the PA what was going on and she just basically ended up not listening to a word I had to say. My PCP had said this morning that what is going on is an inguinal hernia on the right side. That's what is causing me to be tender bellied, but the pa looked at me like I was crazy. She said that if there was a hernia there, it would be visible on imaging, but there was nothing on imaging. She basically just washed her hands of the matter. So 2nd opinion appointment is on Thursday morning. Might be thinking about switching surgeons if it comes to that. I feel totally disrespected at this point. It's like I don't even know my own body cues. If both my PCP and gyn can see pain in my face, then there's a problem. I'm so done with the stupid crap today. Just needed to get it out in the open before I snapped on someone.