Learn from patients with pain similar to yours

CatchMyPain Community and Pain Diary App to manage chronic illness


Jun 09, 2016 6:22 AM

Please keep me in your prayers and thoughts today. I have shared before that my boss has crossed boundaries that I have not given her permission to cross. She continues to do that. She has waged an all out attack on me and campaign to force me out on disability. If I leave on disability it doesn't look so bad for her. Since I have returned to work from my last bout with a contagious illness that took me down for a few weeks she has been in my office everyday with one complaint or another that can't hold water. She complain I miss too many staff meetings because I am sick. Yet other staff miss because they take vacation and that's not a problem. I have requested FMLA papers. I have been told we don't have them.
I am told I am not a team player because I miss a meeting at the agency because I have to go outside the agency to be with a client in Court. She has accused me of saying things I have not said. I remind her time and time again that I am sick. That the stress she puts me under has a negative impact on me. She insist she is my biggest advocate, that I do a wonderful job, I always help out, I am a support to others. She doesn't mean to stress me BUT we need to push through. If that doesn't sound crazy I don't know what does. Lately she wants to prove me incompetent to do my job because of my medication. I should not be in the community. She decided that the company had to carry liability insurance on us and was hoping because of my health I was uninsurable. All was fine on my end. You can see the stress is tremdous as I have the only income and a child at home who I support.
I have been having chest pains, daily head aches, increased pain, thoughts of getting off this crazy evil roller coaster. And she professes to be a Christian woman.
I had a long talk with my PCP yesterday and filled her in on everything. She is keeping a close watch on me and I have to go back next week, she has added an anti depression medication and referral to a shrink.
Would you please pray for me today and tomorrow as I go in to work. When ever you can remember to think of me. My pain level is up now and I haven't even gone in. I need the strength of the community as well as My Lord first and for most.
I thank you in advance. I've been so overwhelmed it's been hard to get on here. I've not been able to do the things I've usually enjoyed doing... We all know that's a sign of depression. I admit it. Help me fight my way out. Bless you all for being here for me and everyone else in the community.

Jun 09, 2016 9:15 AM

You are in my prayers! It's awful how a work place treats people that are so sick, I personally am ready to quit my job but can't. It's a viscous cycle.

Jun 09, 2016 10:15 AM

Mysisterskeeper, you have my prayer's! Your boss that is treating you like that needs a dose of her own medication if not fired! As soon as I'm done typing this I'll pray for you. Take care of yourself and child and let God and let go. Love Hug's and prayer's sweet! 😘💕🙏🌞

Jun 09, 2016 10:38 AM

I will be praying as well. Your situation is very similar to mine. Bullying boss & friends, single parent. I am fortunate that when I go back to work (am currently off on short term disability) I will be transferred to a different facility. I pray for strength for you.

Jun 09, 2016 3:42 PM

Mysisterskeeper, I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. It breaks my heart to hear this woman processes to be a Christian, yet is acting in such a judgemental, manipulative, lying, and nonsupportive way to someone else. As a Christian she should be bending over backwards to help you; it is our duty to love, pray for, and support anyone in need. You stay strong, trusting God for strength and endurance. This is "a valley" that you will get out of! Hugs & many prayers going up for you, and for this boss! 🙂💕🙏🌼

Jun 09, 2016 9:04 PM

Mysisterskeeper, if you would like to talk please feel free to email me @ mvp197889@gmail.com. I know what it what it was like to be a single Mom and having to juggle taking care of someone besides your kid's and Yourself. I'm here anytime! Still Praying for you! 🙏💕🌞✝

Jun 09, 2016 9:32 PM

I will put you into my heart's joy And blessings daily numeration. You are not alone, all of us take a painful breath as one.

Jun 10, 2016 2:18 AM

Keep a journal of everything. Consult a disability lawyer or maybe the labor board. FMLA PAPERWORK IS AVAILABLE ONLINE. consult with a lawyer. Large companies must comply with FMLA LAW. It protects your job not your income.

Jun 10, 2016 6:58 AM

I'm also praying. I'm sorry for your stressful situation at work. May God bless you and protect you.

Jun 10, 2016 7:03 AM

Best of luck sad how things are in these situations, but it all works out in the end just smile to yourself and tackle it as best as possible. As I am sure many of us have similar stories that is what keeps me going that they can't take away the person that I grew up to be and while they waste time trying I move ahead hopefully to an early retirement
I do wish you luck but you sound like a strong person you will do fine, in reference to previous post there is also the no fear act and or hostile environment that happens to add to your symptoms at the workplace aka injury causing a review of the workers comp policy in place just a thought if for nothing other than a smile a laugh to get your day off to a good start .

Ready to start relieving your pain?

Join Community