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May 02, 2015 2:55 PM

That it I've had it ,not only do I still have to do every f@@@k thing still ,but he has totally pissed me off , working for two years helping everybody bloody else ,and he don't get paid ,he told me he don't what to get paid , I know we live on f@@king benefits great , full time care well that's a joke ,because he so busy do every day and yes 365 days ayears because people email him or ring ,! And yes I have asked him loads of time to sort it out ,and still it gos on ,and now he's told me his go out for the nigh over night ,, oh I've had it ,him him him WHAT ABOUT ME ! When do I get a night off or some you don't leave my home alone when I need him ! Sorry need to get it off my chest and I really hate his driver ,so f@@k perfect !

May 02, 2015 10:29 PM

I am sorry honeybee. You sound distraught. I feel for you. Today I have been really mad at family So I understand that feeling. I have to admit that your ranting was sort of vagure. I would try to be more empathetic. but I don't know why he doesn't make money. Why does he go out and leave you alone. What do you want him to do for you? What do you need from him? Why does he work for free? I am not trying to be rude but want to understand your situation better so I can listen and feel for you. Even though our group is online we do try to be empathetic and understanding of one another. My last question is this. It sounds like the way you sound that it wouldn't matter but we still gotta try. Have you told him what you need and what makes you mad. Most relationships fail because of poor communication. People need to share with their significant ofther what hurts them and what they need. I once told my wife that I was not in love with her anymore. She felt the same way. We talked We told each other what we needed to get those feelings back and what we liked when we had those feelings of being in love. We didn't date anymore. We started dating. I am not saying this is your situation. But you need to tell him what you need if you haven't already.

Please tell me more about yourself.

May 03, 2015 8:10 AM

Have done so many times , told him want I need until iam blue in the face ,again and again ,

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