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Sep 11, 2018 1:34 AM

I'm not trying to be dirty here, I real am curious if you still have sex and if you do how has it changed due to your injuries or disease? Or can u no longer enjoy it? I know for me it's not like it was when I was younger and healthy but it's still a nice escape from the pain occasionally and it helps me still feel closer to my wife.

Sep 11, 2018 6:36 AM

Hi happytoseethesunrise,

It is a delicate topic but I'm glad you brought it up.

Since my symptoms started our sex life has changed, it's not as frequent as it used to be. There are certain things we can't do now obviously but when I'm having what I call a good run, we try to make it as special as possible. I still enjoy sex and being intimate with my husband.

I found as long as I talk to him about it and make him understand that it's not him it's my pain he was accepting and has never pressured me at all.

Take care

Hayley x

Sep 11, 2018 8:23 AM

Obviously not as often but definitely still enjoy it! Just have to do positions that donโ€™t hurt. And keep it simple and quick lol.
Still gotta live! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Sep 11, 2018 3:41 PM

That's good to hear Haley, obviously being a man it's different but my is very understanding too

Sep 13, 2018 12:38 PM

Totally nonexistent for the past decade due to a long list of overlapping medical conditions and surgical complications. It's just too painful no matter what. But thank God I have a very loving and understanding husband!

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