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Sleep issue

Jan 14, 2015 12:48 AM

Hi everyone. I just wondered if any of you have trouble sleeping in the same bed as a partner? It's difficult for me to find an almost comfortable sleeping position so when I am asleep and my partner stirs or turns over etc it hurts my body as muscle spasms happen so easily for me. Hope this makes sense!

Jan 14, 2015 1:01 AM

When I am bad I put pillows between my husband and i. He has a habit of touching me and his hands twitch in his sleep which gives me muscle spasms. We have a foam mattress and a king size bed so I don't feel him move so much. When I have insomnia his snoring drives me crazy.

Jan 14, 2015 8:14 AM

Yes. If I'm restless I feel like I keep my husband from resting. And his snoring, even with CPAP, is a problem for me to stay asleep. He's been sick and I had to get up and go in the other romm, shake him awake and tell him to adjust his head position because he was making choking sounds

Jan 14, 2015 12:21 PM

Yes! We have a queen size and aren't really queen sized people haha. Would love a king with twin mattresses so that we can each move and not affect the other. I need multiple pillows to sleep with and my shoulder and hip get sore after some time so I have to change positions often and I turn move all my pillows with me. I am always afraid I'm going to wake my hubby up so I try to be super stealthy-- this is not real doable though! Along with bathroom trip... I understand why some people sleep in different beds and rooms now. Plus I often wake up at night and would like to read to make the time go by quicker but don't usually do it because I don't want to wake hubby up as he has to get up early for work.

Jan 14, 2015 2:36 PM

Thanks for all your comments 😁

Jan 14, 2015 2:42 PM

I do not hardly ever sleep with my partner. She likes tv and light! I need dark, white noise, and room to move!

Jan 14, 2015 2:54 PM

Unfortunately, that was the case with my wife and I. Plus on top of that, I could not fall asleep til three or four in the morning. So, I would stay up and watch tv programs on my computer. It was the only thing I could do to pass the time. I couldn't go out in the living room. Because I was out there for two hours. That is the max that I can sit down. I have to lay down on my side my optimal for optimal comfort. So it just got to be to much for her and me. We had to switch to two twin beds. Yes, I know. Very Donna Reed style. But it was really s big help and made us both happy. I do miss being right next to her but it is just not possible anymore.

Jan 16, 2015 10:57 PM

Sleep number solved the problem. I do not even know when he rolls over. I am the 'Princess and The Pea' when it comes to beds seriously. I have 19 inches of Stainless steel rod with clips, screws and hooks. I go through beds like most people go through socks. Since I bought my sleep number life is better. I like my side firm real firm. He likes his side soft so it is perfect. Cost wise the are not expensive you can buy everything you need and put it together yourself off ebay. Seriously. I was completely shocked. The bladders, the pump, the controls and the case it goes in. It is all there. Crazy right. Before this bed I would spend around 6 to 8 thousand every 5 or 6 years.

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