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So f**ked off

May 23, 2017 4:35 AM

I can't believe that my partner has burst my bubble. I've been so happy being with my family and the birth of my great niece but he has spoilt it all for me.
I made a genuine error with both his and my medication. I organised an emergency prescription for myself through the hospital yesterday, he didn't tell me that he was low and I forgot I had used some of his (we are on the same medication) while I waited for mine before I came to England. I have phoned his Drs this morning to arrange an emergency one for him. I've also arranged for my friend to pick them up from the Dr and get them dispensed so he doesn't have to get up off his lazy arse. All he has done is moan at me as I've had to extend my stay and to tell me I just take over everything etc etc etc. This led to me slamming the phone down on him and promptly bursting into tears.
I don't know wether to be angry, hurt or upset right now. All I know is he's spoilt it for me.
It's also the anniversary of my fathers death but not a word of sympathy or anything from him.
Right now I could easily stay in England and tell him to take a long walk off a short pier!!!!!! 😂😡😡

May 23, 2017 4:53 AM

I'm so sorry Cinders49. Still look to that miracle little child that has come into the world... Your world and rejoice and be glad. All will work itself out. My condolences on the anniversary Of the loss of your father. Stay strong... ((((gentle hugs))))

May 23, 2017 4:56 AM

Thank you Overcomer 😊 I'm doing my best. I just can't get over how mean he's been. I know it seems childish but I'm already rather fragile today.

May 23, 2017 5:08 AM

Your most welcome. We often feel taken advantage of because of are condition. People don't realize our limited capacity. And yes it hurts... All the way to the bone. It's not childish at all sweety. It's survival. You take care you are doing a great job. Remember that alwYs.

May 23, 2017 7:01 AM

Its not childish cinders. Things like that hurt and it being a rough day to begin with. Hope things settle down. Hugs

May 23, 2017 8:57 AM

Wish you joy and happiness

May 23, 2017 10:54 AM

Aww sorry hes being a jerk! I say ignore him & stay happy about that new, cute little niece of yours!

May 27, 2017 11:53 PM

I'm with Joey and everyone else, focus on the positive and say "boo" to his negativity. I was with a guy who had me taking care of all of his medication & doctor appointments (all the whole juggling 3 different specialists and few different surgeries). He was very much like what your partner sounds like. I'm sorry about the anniversary of your dad's passing. You're in my thoughts and I hope you can focus and enjoy your newest addition to the family and feel the love from those sending it to you.

May 28, 2017 12:21 AM

Well the opposite can be almost as bad. My husband of 43 years turned into my nurse instead be my husban.

May 28, 2017 2:21 AM

Hey Cinder49. I'm sorry he turned something so easily fixed into a big problem. I do understand being out of meds and thinking it's the end of the world . But like you said if he would of told you he was low then things would have been better.

I am sorry for your loss . Don't give up sweetie . Things well work out . 🤗🤗s. Sending prayers your way.

((Gentle hugs))..

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