So today I'm.having a conversation with my sis and it was going well at first . we spoke about somethings going on with my nephew and other family things. So then we come to apoi t where she says "like you. We all know that u should not have waited so long to see a doctor. Working is good but u should have seen a doctor a long time ago'" I agreed with her on ha f and let the conversation continue on. But now as I sit in pain thinking about all we spoke about . I'm like what the heck!!!! Since when is it wrong g to want to work and do better for yourself. Yes I did neglect my health in the way of overworking and not doing regular check ups. But does that mean I deserve to have multiple tumors and non stop pain and now am not able to work. Being trapped in a body that can not perform what my brain says.
Now I know it's already.been established that my family is a little special and they tend to say thing off the wall. So I'm.not really hurt by what she said. But I am still a little taken aback by what she said. I mean would u tell any other cancer patient thst it's there fault they have cancer. This is definitely a shake your head moment.