I just want to say that this community of people and this app has already changed my life and put a smile on my face. .and given me a lot of chuckles! Thanks everyone! !!!My best to you all and my prayers for everyone here to find comfort and support and the feeling of not being alone! 😍💙❤💛💐🌸🌷🍀🌹🌻🌺🌼
This community has been by far the most helpful and understanding group of people I have ever been a part of. I felt I had to quit posting in another online community because they were rude and unfriendly. So far I have not seen that here and so I have posted more here than I ever did there.
Cheeky. ..I'm brand new also. ..it's easy to navigate. .just point out where you hurt.and click on community and chat and read others posts. ...I've found so much comfort and understanding people here. .it blows my mind. Welcome ☺❤💙💛💐🌸🌷🌹🌻🌺🌼
FeatherMarie, this is a Godsend.... This community is absolutely wonderful. I look forward to coming on and hearing what's going on in everyone's lives and that I have grown so fond of. I have learned that I can still smile and laugh and that there is always someone here that will listen and even sometimes give me another way of looking at something. I'm glad that this app has been so good for you. One thing to remember, this is a no judgement zone, you can vent, scream, cry, or just read posts and offer some guidance based on your own experiences. So, welcome, welcome, welcome to what I call our community family. I hope you stay around and get to know us. You will now be part of my prayers and well wishes for happy days and less pain. Glad you are here.
Alwayz what you say is so true about everyone on this site. I haven't been on very much lately. I love coming on and talking with all of y'all, the people here are very supportive, and have good advice, and Christian fellowship with y'all I have really been missing my Catch My Pain Family. We are really having a lot of problems with my daughters fiancé. She caught him cheating on her the same night after we had to take the baby to the ER. He left his phone laying around and on a chat site and she found some very explicit messages between him and another woman , that was his brothers girlfriend's roommate. He told her he wanted to have a sexual re elation ship but couldn't move in with her, and a lot more that I can't write on hear. My daughter was devastated she called him to come home and went outside got in the car and he talked himself out of the dog house she let him stay. I couldn't believe that she let him stay, I told her that his clothes would have been on the porch waiting on him. If it would have been me he'd be gone. Now he has this job where he was supposed to be gone for two weeks now it's turned into 4 months. I hope and pray that he finds a girl there and doesn't come back. I feel guilty feeling like this but I am so scared he is going to give her a std that can't be cured. Because he can't be without a woman before she got with him he was sleeping with 3 at the same time, and none of them knew about the the other ones. God forgive me for feeling like this. I am sorry my rant was so long.
Weezie, that's terrible! I'll continue praying for you and your family. Praying for the boyfriend too because God knows what's best and may His will be done. I've somewhat walked in your shoes having to help raise our granddaughter her first two years. Her mom and dad aren't married and I see it as best but he also grew up to become a very loving and devoted dad. And my daughter married someone else. Trust God and pray for your granddaughter's father but leave his life to God. As hard as it is to do you have to steep back and let your daughter make her own choices, and reap the consequences. You just be there to support her. Hugs and prayers! 🙏🌼
Weezie, I couldn't have put it any better than Flappsy just did. I will pray for all of you and I hope that things get sorted out for everyone in a manner that is the best for everybody. I know that this has to add stress to your already stressful life and it is certainly a stress that you could do without. Flappsy is right, hold onto your faith and pray. You never know, this bonehead could end up growing up and changing his ways. Sometimes they talk themselves out of the doghouse, however, then something happens and all of a sudden, BAM, they have changed for the better, the relationship becomes solid, etc... Things will work out as they are supposed to. All you can do is be there to support your daughter and go from there.
Sad to say but I was busted before. After being caught, I've now remained loyal and really saw the light. I'm not proud of it really, I have two beautiful kids that my wife gave me and couldn't believe myself when reflecting back on this that I would risk all that at all.
I've changed my mentality and love my wife even more. I just hope you guys do believe that people can change for the better. Of course actions has to speak louder than words.
Flappsy, Alwayz, and Octobot I needed to here that. I know God knows best and it will be his will at the end of it. This boy has a daughter by a wife whom he is still married to that is 5 his father has full custody of her. She was born with a cleft palette and had a feeding tube he was such a good father to her that they let mold grow inside of the feeding tube. She is a beautiful little girl he hardly sees her and we only live approximately 8 miles from them. She has had 3 surgeries to fix it, now she has to have two separate surgeries on both ears because of the cleft palette it has caused cysts to grow inside her ears causing her ear drums to collapse. Her Dr told his dad's girlfriend that she would have to be watched very carefully for the rest of her life because they will come back. His dad is a long distance truck driver so he can't always take her to the Dr. I am asking for prayer for her.
Octobot, we've all made mistakes, and it's through our mistakes that most of us learn & change. It's the small few who can't see past their own selfishness that don't change, or change to late to alter the course of their lives and others they affected. Be proud you learned. 🙏🌼