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So tired I can't even deal

Nov 07, 2016 11:54 AM

So mom just comes in my room a d says that my sister has just told her that she is having surgery during the same week as mine. The week that ive been talking about for two weeks. Why does everything have to traumatic why can't things just go right for once. I want to be so over this.

Nov 07, 2016 3:32 PM

(((( hugs )))) Am so sorry hun.

Nov 07, 2016 4:35 PM

I'm just so frustrated and tires of being treated as if I'm a second class citizen. And mom is asking me if I called my sister..hell nah..call her for what.?!

Nov 07, 2016 9:33 PM

Newfibrogirl I understand your frustration, please try to concentrate on yourself and try to let the family politics just slide over your head I know it's easier said than done but for your health and wellbeing you need to do what is best for you.
You're in my prayers and I'm sending you { { { BIG GENTLE HEALING LOVING HUGS } } } XX

Nov 07, 2016 9:37 PM

What surgery are you having

Nov 07, 2016 9:48 PM

Heather,. I have multiple abdominal pelvic and uteren tumors so I'm having exploratory surgery to evaluate damage then into a hysterectomy.

Nov 07, 2016 9:50 PM

Guys, it is always something and its exhausting. Sezzy, ur right I did get upset to the point my bidy reacted negativity. Still working on reducing the pain.

Nov 07, 2016 9:51 PM

I've had exploratory with tube removal. I hope you have good people to help you while you're laid up. Goid luck, hugs!

Nov 07, 2016 9:52 PM

Ha..well Heather thst is debatable. My family is a mess in several areas. But all I can do is hope for the best.

Nov 07, 2016 10:03 PM

Who will help you and when us your surgery

Nov 07, 2016 10:06 PM

If you was soo far away I would say you could stay with me while you recover but I don't think your Dr's would let you on a flight to England 😕

I hope things ease up for you soon xxx

Nov 07, 2016 10:08 PM

That was meant to say if you wasn't soo far away......Painssomnia brain is kicking in! !!

Nov 07, 2016 10:08 PM

Thanks sezzy, thsts sweet. Heather I live with my parents and my mom will try to help as best she can. But she tends to be very self focused. I'm going to try and get home health care for post surgery.

Nov 07, 2016 10:09 PM

I know it well sezzy. I figured out what u ment. I appreciate the offer.

Nov 07, 2016 10:17 PM

Will you be having the hysterectomy at the same time as the surgery for the tumours beings removed or will that be another surgery later?

Nov 07, 2016 10:20 PM

Yes..my hope is that this surgery will be my last. Right now I'm four surgeries in and am so over it. The tumors are 7-8 lbs each and at last count they found 10-12 tumors. I'm not very tall so my mid section is pretty much engulfed with tumors. It's affecting my balance and mobility.

Nov 08, 2016 1:37 AM

Oh wow I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. I didn't realise how big each one is.
Hopefully they'll be able to do it all in that one surgery so that not only will you regain your balance and mobility but also have the peace of mind that you can start to move forward again. Hopefully your family realise the magnitude of this surgery and help you in your recovery.
I'm sending you { { { BIG GENTLE HEALING LOVING HUGS } } } and I'm praying that you have a speedy recovery xx

Nov 08, 2016 1:56 AM

Remember you are important, you are loved and we are here for you.
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We care about you

Nov 08, 2016 11:50 AM

Newfibrogirl, just focus on you and getting well. Do you have a friend you could stay with? Him he health is a good idea. Let your doc know about your parents health issues and that your sis is having surgery so your mom's time will be split between the two of you & caring for herself and your dad. If possible maybe even go to a rehab facility if you can. I'm sure you could use the break away! Hugs love & prayers that everything will go well for you! 🙂💕🙏🌸

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