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Upcoming Marriage

Nov 17, 2015 5:27 PM

I am so super happy and excited to be marrying my best friend in 40 days. I am constantly amazed by him. I am worried though because with my Chronic constant pain- I am afraid to become a burden on him. I just wish and pray for a diagnosis. Also, we were thinking about going the chiropractic route to help with the pain. Any thoughts and advice would be much appreciated, please? Thanks.

Nov 17, 2015 5:53 PM

Well first and foremost.. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!! YIPPEE!!!!!!!!. I'm so happy for you . I would secondly say focus on your wedding focus on beinmg happy. This is a great time. As u know we pain suffered don't get !any happy days. So enjoy that . I would also say take your dayas slowly ask for help . as for your pain and your husband accepting it. He has already shoemaker you he will be there for you be thankful for that. Tske you medicine on time and !make sure you get rest.

Nov 17, 2015 5:55 PM

Thank you so much. That helps a lot.

Nov 17, 2015 6:41 PM

Congratulations to you both. I hope you have the best pain free day ever. As for the rest i would not recommend seeing a chiropractor. I have found that a lot of others with pain that do it come out way worse than before. Food for thought. Good luck with everything. xxxx

Nov 17, 2015 6:44 PM

Thank you. I saw a Chiropractor years ago before I had developed so many symptoms and it helped back then. I'll keep your words in mind. I appreciate it.

Nov 17, 2015 8:36 PM

Congratulations Tiff123! It seems you're already committed for "better or worse... Sickness & health," or you wouldn't be getting married. Pace yourself up until the wedding because as you know stress can cause a flare. Afterwards, stay as active as you can, even if it's 10-15 minutes a day. I've been to multiple chiropractors, and no two are alike. The one I have now is the best. She doesn't do all the fancy tables and machines, or twist and bend until you crack. She has a gentle method that releases the pain in just a few treatments. Search until you find one that you're comfortable with. Saying a prayer for blessings on your marriage & health! 🙏🌼

Nov 17, 2015 11:14 PM

Just take things one day at a time☺️
My hubs is amazing and takes great care of me (almost to the extent he doesn't let me do things lol).
I wish you all the happiness 🌸

Nov 18, 2015 12:43 PM

Tiff123, Congrats!!! I hope you and your Hubby have a wonderful and long life together. As for your pain, take it one second, one moment, one day at a time. If he loves you now and wants to marry you and is your best friend, think positive. Everything will go well. Sending {{{Hugs}}} and prayers for a wonderful and happy marriage to your best friend. I'm sure you'll be a beautiful bride!!

Nov 18, 2015 3:41 PM

Tiff123 Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Like Alwayz said take everything with your pain one day at a time and if he loves you know knowing you have the chronic pain and is still willing to marry you well girl he is someone who will be there for you every step of the way! Enjoy your upcoming wedding! So happy for you!

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