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Jan 22, 2016 2:35 PM

OK as most of you all know my Aunt passed on Dec. 30th. I am still not over it yet just to be hit with some God Awful news this am. A close friend of the family is now in Hospice at a hospital and only has weeks if that left. When is everyone around me going to stop dieing!? I don't like taking anxiety medications but today I had to! Please say another prayer for our friends family and ours, it's hard enough dealing with one death but now to have try 2 at the same time! I think I will go sit outside and enjoy the snow we had gotten last night.

Jan 22, 2016 3:10 PM

I'm so sorry Moparmom! Hugs & prayers for you & your family. πŸ™‚πŸ™πŸŒΌπŸ’•

Jan 23, 2016 9:10 AM

Moparmom, I am so sorry for what you're going through. I know that your Aunt passing was a huge blow and you must know that there is no time limit or using the words "get over it". You loved her deeply and you will mourn in your own time and it will get better in time. I am sending gentle {{{Hugs}}} and prayers for you and your friend and your friend's family. I'm here if you need me.πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ»πŸŒ»

Jan 23, 2016 10:21 AM

Grief is individual. You aren't even a month out from your aunt's death. I wish you could have received more time before you got this additional devastating news. I'll pray for you.

Jan 23, 2016 10:32 AM

My heart hurts for you! Thoughts and prayers to you and yours.

Jan 23, 2016 11:07 AM

Just got the news that he had passed last night. 😒 He was a good soul and loved with passion. Have a good day all and may you enjoy your time with family, never know how long you have.

Jan 23, 2016 12:37 PM

Blessings to you, mopar. Be gentle with yourself. Best and warmest thoughts for you.

Jan 23, 2016 12:45 PM

Oh honey, I'm so very sorry. I am saying a prayer for you. Please try to take care of yourself. You've had a rough time indeed. Love and hugs sweets. 🌻

Jan 23, 2016 12:49 PM

Oh, I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. You are right about enjoying your family and friends because you never know when the last time you see them is the last time. My heart aches for you. Sending you {{{Hugs}}} and I'm right here if you need me. And just a note to the rest of this wonderful pain family, you're all very important to me and I have made many close friendships here. I don't take your support for granted and I'm always happy when I can help someone feel better. So hugs all around and prayers for all to have a peaceful, safe and light pain day.πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ»πŸŒ»πŸ˜

Jan 23, 2016 12:50 PM

MoparMom I am so sorry for the loss of your friend last night. I know that you are still greaving, your Aunt. Just try and take it a day at a time and gradually it will get better. You will never forget them but at times you will recall funny times and laugh. I know be a use I lost my Mother in May 2000 , an Uncle in June 2000, then another Aunt in September 2000. It was very hard but it does get better I promise.

Jan 23, 2016 7:43 PM

Moparmom, I'm so sorry! I oppose as time passes you'll have wonderful memories that you haven't thought of come flooding back to help you through your grief. Gentle hugs & prayers for comfort! πŸ™‚πŸ™πŸŒΌπŸ’•

Jan 25, 2016 1:36 PM

Thank You everyone for the prayer's and hugs. I am taking everything day by day. In alot of pain physically with my right hand. So I've not been on much. But know that I am praying for each and everyone of you!

I am heading to lay back down for awhile, pain medication is finally kicking in so, maybe I can actually get some sleep.

Love and gentle hugs all! πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ™

Jan 25, 2016 1:42 PM

Rest well my friend. I'm glad that you checked in. {{{Hugs}}} and prayers as always. πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ»πŸŒ»πŸ˜Š

Jan 26, 2016 3:47 AM

Moparmom, I am really sorry that you have had to deal with so much death. The bible calls death an enemy. I think that is appropiate. We weren't meant to die. People alive were never made to suffer the loss of someone else. I am sorry that you are suffering the loss of people you love. It is tragic. I am conscious of that all the time. I worry that I could lose someone close to me. So I try to remember to tell the ones I care about that I love them whenever I see them. I am sorry for your losses.

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