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Wedding ring advice?

Sep 17, 2016 1:27 PM

My arthritis only just recently started hitting my hands and it's been miserable. My ring has been cutting into my finger and I had to take it off because if the swelling gets worse, I wouldn't have the option. I love my ring and I hate that it's becoming a problem... I know some people wear it on a necklace and some people get tattoos, but what are your solutions and opinions? I'm kind of crushed about the whole situation. :(

Sep 17, 2016 2:18 PM

My Mother had RA so severe from 30 years to end of her life. Her ring was altered to have a fastening on palm side with a sturdy metal snap like you see on some watches. She wore it that way for years. I have both Dad's & her rings now. I think about having them made into a new ring to wear, but it would have a ton of diamonds I would have to watch so many prongs for wear. Don't know what to do with them!
Hope this helps, if you want to keep wearing your truly gorgeous wedding ring😍

Sep 17, 2016 3:03 PM

Have a good jeweler put a hinge on the side. No pain moving the ring over swollen knuckles.

Sep 17, 2016 10:33 PM

Size up and get that silicone ring fitter to fill the space. In sorry I'm blanking on the word but my mom does that

Sep 18, 2016 10:54 AM

I haven't been able to wear my wedding rings for almost 3 yrs now! I have tried getting it sized and other options but my fingers swell so much its completely unpredictable! I am crushed that I can no longer wear them either. I wear them on a necklace now and say" they are close to my heart!" I know this isn't a solution but it was constantly cutting off my circulation and I almost had to get them cut off! Best of luck I hope you find an option that works for you!

Sep 18, 2016 9:12 PM

Anna1978, I cannot wear mine either, not for several years now. I had them enlarged , cleaned & built up and the first time I wore they as append in back. After all that I gave up. My hands swell and contract even several times a day. Sad😭

Sep 18, 2016 9:13 PM

Append=snapped.

Sep 20, 2016 7:59 PM

Resize with the inside addition of a ring band for fit (metal or silicon).

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