As u all know ,day to say we live a pretty hirid life as far as pain and discomfort goes. And stress and tension comes with illness. And we all know the key words or phrases we hear all the time. Can I help?/do u feel better? Blah blah..
But if u k iw the intent is good what do u say ?/me, I just say no I don't feel better a d as my condition goes I'm gonna feel better. I don't know what will help? I can't help myself.
I feel bad for dismissing them like that but I really have no clue. In honesty I would love to have someone help me with cooking and bring me drinks and help me stack those Pillow's. But that feels like I'm being g a lazy person or beingneedy especially when you know there is another very needy patient in the home. So I try to be as Independent as I can.
So... Back to the original question... What would u guys say to someone who ask you what can they do to help?